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Feeling Hopeless

Fri, February 08, 2019 6:53 PM

I am a 53-year-old male diagnosed with UC about five years ago. A recovering alcoholic. This has been such a nightmare. I'm in the midst of a horrible flare-up right now and am struggling to stay positive and hopeful. I hate to admit but the only thing that gives me relief is alcohol. The pain in my rectum is so severe and I can't eat anything and can't sleep unless I pass out drunk. And, of course, the next morning is horrific and I can barely work (thank God I work at home) and I feel like I'm in this vicious cycle.

I'm currently on prednisone and am going to see the doctor Monday to try something, as several drugs haven't worked for me at all. I just hate this condition so much. It has taken over my existence and I am trying not to let it overwhelm me and ruin me. I'm reading these posts and weeping because my heart breaks for anyone who has to endure this and you all seem so open and honest and kind. I am so glad I found this site.

UltraV412
Joined Feb 8, 2019

Thu, March 14, 2019 10:35 PM

Reply posted for UltraV412.

Hiya. I just wanted to ditto that alcohol always aggravates my condition, too. It's tempting, especially after a physically painful and emotionally exhausting day or week, but the chemistry of it just infuriates the symptoms. For relief, look into medical marijuana. It has compelling research that indicates a reduction of IBS/Crohns symptoms. We're all human. We all need a fix or indulgence in something - be it religion, health food, cheat food, or drugs. If your current fix is alcohol, maybe switching to the lesser of two evils will be beneficial in this circumstance. At least dig into the research a bit and try to make an informed decision - just wanted to present the option.

kirstenhearnes
Joined Mar 14, 2019

Tue, February 26, 2019 10:33 PM

Reply posted for hazy.

Hi UltraV,
I just read your post --and it sounds rough. Just wanted to say I'm sorry you were going through that. Looks like you posted a couple weeks ago so I hope things have improved since.
I don't know how it is for you, but for me alcohol is the one thing that always clearly worsens my uc flares. I understand the urge to turn to it for comfort and sleep, but, as you say, that also be a vicious cycle by aggravating the flare symptoms. Of course with pain and difficult sleep anyone would struggle to stay positive--and I hope the doctor was able to help you with better solutions for sleep. Go easy on yourself. Sending hope your way.

hazy
Joined Apr 3, 2015

Mon, February 11, 2019 8:04 PM

Reply posted for UltraV412.

Hang in there, UltraV412 :) You and your body are stronger than you think! Let us know how your doc visit went, if you want

KRiegel
Joined Feb 4, 2019

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