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How do you tell someone you are dating you have this?


Wed, June 27, 2018 9:53 PM

How do you tell someone you are dating you have this illness? Literally please give me examples of how to phrase it. I've had horrible reactions from "friends" when I've told them, it has really scarred me from opening up to people about it. 

FPO dede1
Joined Jun 27, 2018

Sun, July 01, 2018 11:59 PM

Reply posted for dede1.

My son was dx at 10, and is now 18.  He used to lie about it, until he had the confidence to talk about it.  We simply say he has a digestive disorder/disease (he has Crohn's), and if people really care about you, and are mature enough, they should be supportive...I wish you the best of luck...it will get easier though:)

FPO jrichins
Joined Feb 10, 2018

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