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This is my first time posting on here, and who knows if I'll even finish and actually post it.  I have been dealing with my symptoms for just over a year now.  The doctors have narrowed my case down to either Crohn's or colitis, but are still unsure.  More testing will hopefully give me some answers.  

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kt,

I'm also a college student, but I was diagnosed about midway through high school. It's tough when you have soo many things to worry about, like getting to class and assignment deadlines and going here and there, and IBD, for sure, doesnt help. I think common anxieties are the main factors that prevent a lot of people from living healthy lives. I think its especially important that you do open up to others, but I know how annoying it might sound. Also, if you're not doing too well in your classes, check up with your schools disability services, and they could help you out with excuse letters to your professors, and could give you special services like access to computer labs and testing rooms, and even tutors. It's always important to stay in touch with a GI doctor in the area just in case something happens. And most importantly, like you say, these 4ish years are the best years of your life (or come close), so prove it to yourself! Go out, socialize, break rules. It's important to not let IBD run your life. I hope I was helpful in any way. Good luck!

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Hi KT,

I was also diagnosed while in college (symptomatic finals week fall semester sophomore year, oof!).  Anyway, I just started grad school this past fall (I am 22) and have finally (mostly) gotten everything under control.  It is all a matter of finding a doctor you can work with while finding the the best balance of treatment, which is no easy feat, especially while in college.  While stress/attitude management are key, bad days are inevitable.  A lot of what matters when you are getting through this is what you do with those bad days.  Of course these are easy things to say, and really difficult things to do!  Right now I am taking Humira and Imuran, which is working well.  The Humira is great since I can administer it myself without having it interrupt much of my life.  I would recommend it if your doctors think it would work well for you.

It is funny you should mention VT, thats my hometown!  I was actually diagnosed originally by the doctors in the area.  So I am very familiar with bburg and VT; if you ever need some advice about how to cope with Crohns and college (and the bburg area doctors), feel free to shoot me an email and I would be more than happy to chat.

vortmax10@gmail.com

Hang in there!
-jacob

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It's tough to be diagnosed at any age!

I was diagnosed when I was 17 (my senior year of high school).  I was very active (basketball, track, varsity club, musicals, choir) I would just come home and pass out.  It wasnt too too bad back then.  In college I was pretty okay, up until the end of my senior year (when I was 21) it was a lil rough...I had some gum surgery done and after that I had a flare up that lasted like a year (odd catalyst I know).  I think though the stress of senior year (even though I'm not a stressful person) finally caught up to me.

It took awhile to get over that flare-up, I still have some issues occasionally.

It's tough for friends to understand (I think especially people that are newly diagnosed).  People that are the closest to you will eventually get it cause they will see you on your good days and bad days, and they won't be the ones that look at you with pity.  My boyfriend understands my illness inside and out.  We've been together 2 1/2 years (so he was with me through my flare and sees how bad it can get).  But I am so happy I have someone that understands my illness and can help me on my bad days.

I now work as a nurse and I'm gearing up to go to grad school.  My emotional state is holding out so far, lets just hope my intestines do!!!!

I've found some of the best ways to cope with the stress is to post here.  There are people here that can help you through your illness.  Let me know if you need anything!!

Good Luck!!!

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KT,

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i was diagnosed with crohn's my sophomore year of college, but i'd been sick since my freshman year. it sucked to be stuck at school sick, and sometimes my mom would have to come up and bring me to the local e.r. or whatever.

the main things you should do is tell your teachers about it, in as little or much detail as needed. usually i told mine that i had a digestive disorder and i'd sit by the door in case i had to go to the bathroom. i made arrangements to get my work online if i missed a class (or was in the hospital), and 99% of my teachers were cool with it. depending on the severity of your disease, you might want to let the college know through their disabilites department if you need any accomadations.

i also made sure i knew where every bathroom on campus, or wherever i happened to be, was. that was helpful just in case, and it also makes you feel better mentally.

i told my close friends who helped me out a lot. i kept it simple at first, and then gave more info as needed, if needed. of course, they didn't understand really right away, but it's nice to have people there if you need them. plus it's better to have it out in the open because then it's not added stress.

i'm 23 and i graduated college with my associate's degree (i plan to go back for training in medical transcription so i can work from home), and i got married 2 years ago. my husband is awesome, and he gives me my humira shot every sunday in my stomach because i was too weirded out to do it myself. i make sure i carry a card in my wallet by my drvier's license that says what meds i'm on, just in case.

really, it sounds like you are driven, and you can do whatever you want to if you set your mind to it. somedays it's gonna feel overwhelming, but it will pass and you can do it :)

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I am sorry you are battling this too.  I think for me that has been one of the hardest things is when I start to think of all the things I might not be able to do.  I try not to think about it (yeah right) and try to focus and enjoy what I can do.  Suddenly small things are such victories.  Telling friends is hard.  And finally I had to learn to stop being embarrasssed- I mean I don't give them the finite details and it depends on the friend too.  I am surprised how many people are understanding and willing to help me get out - scout for restrooms and think of places to go that I would be comfortable.  You might check out the travel forum here- wow alot of people just go out there and do it.  They are so brave- I hope I can be like that too.  Hang in there- I mean you are doing an impressive job doing everything you ARE doing! 

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I just wanted to say, don't give up.  I know it's hard, especially when first diagnosed, but your diagnosis should define you.  It is just part of who you are even if it may be influential in your life. 

Again, telling friends is hard... because they may not fully understand, they may not want to know and they may feel sorry for you.  The best advise I have for that is, tell them the diluted truth... 'I have and immune disease that causes digestive problems so I don't always feel good, may use the restroom more often, blah, blah, blah...' however you want to word it, unless they want to know more, for a lot of people it's kind of a taboo subject.  It may seem hard, with you being newly diagnosed, but showing that you are okay with it, helps to reduce the look of pity.  Some people, will feel sorry for you automatically and won't even notice they are treating you even slightly differently... most of the time if you tell them what they are doing, they stop.

It's hard, but I suppose it makes us all stronger.  One day, you may look back and think... I don't know who I'd be if I never had that challenge.  I am 23, and being in grad school, there have been multiple times where I am so grateful that I learned to manage my stress years ago... I may sound super optimistic, but I've been dealing with it for a while, I've had my time (and more) to come to terms with it.  I hope that you get there too, and that you find some support along the way.