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Flare Up and Staying Positive


Mon, June 21, 2010 12:00 AM

I dont get on often but when im feeling bad ill come and visit and knowing that im not alone always helps the cause. Im having a flare up at the moment and about to head the hospital for xrays on my back and blood/urine tests done. Ive been in the process of moving into my new home which is always nice except having to actually do the moving. I have been lucky enough to have married someone who has been there from the beginning with me and who has stuck beside me when ive had my bad days. I have discovered that when I start to stress ill have a flare up. I have been out of work since November of last year and have had lots of trouble finding work. Ive lost my last 2 jobs because of my UC so that makes it hard for anyone to want to hire me. I havent been able to live my life how I want too. This past weekend I missed playing Ultimate Frisbee and Volleyball Friday night, Saturday I missed my sister n laws graduation party and my cousins graduation party, and sunday I missed a fathers day cookout at my grandparents all because I was laying in bed trying not to move so I wouldnt have to go to the bathroom. But through all my hardships with money, stress, lifestyle, family. I try to remind myself that everything will be ok and things will get back to normal someday and things could always be worse. Just remember you are not alone and to stay positive.

FPO crogers8705
Joined Jan 5, 2010

Mon, June 21, 2010 12:00 AM

 Reply posted for crogers8705.

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You are so right.  I believe in a whole body approach to this illness.  I have found if I stay hydrated and nourished it is easier to stay positive.  I believe if we heal our emotional hurts, the disease lessens.  Yes, there are days I don't feel good but my hubby and I spend as many of those as we can watching funny or sappy movies.  He always finds a way to entertain me.  The latest is a kitten.  Taking care of the kitten really helps me deal with the drama of having 3 young adult children.  When I am feeling good, which is the majority of the time, we play like kids. 

While you are going thru this flare, concentrate on your body healing.  Laughter is good medicine.  Tears are good, too. 

Breezy

FPO breezy
Joined Jan 5, 2009

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