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Really down these days...


Mon, June 28, 2010 12:00 AM

I have been having stomach issues lately along with constipation and it all sucks. Have missed 5 days of work now and am getting really depressed about the whole situation and am at the point I do not care about anything really.My job fire me I do not care,my bills whatever, my personal life that gets a whatever too. I just feel like sometimes since I do not look sick that people do not believe I am I have emailed my Dr to see if she thinks I might be having an onset of an obstruction or what is going on, I see her next Thursday.I know there are people out there that have Crohn's so much worse than me and why should I be compalining and feeling this way I feel so guilty all the time. I want my old life back I want to be able to do the things I use to which really wasnt anything special but I do not care this sh** sucks and is taking my life from me. I am currently on no meds due to the fact they have nothing more to offer me everything I have tried does not work or I am allergic to,so until they come out with something new here I am...

FPO msalanui
Joined Jul 23, 2009

Sun, July 11, 2010 12:00 AM

 Reply posted for msalanui.

right there w/ ya

FPO debbates101
Joined Jun 23, 2010

Tue, June 29, 2010 4:02 AM

 Reply posted for msalanui.

It sucks!  I've completely been there!  Well, am there, sort of.  All except for the depressio--well, I'm there, too.  If I was there I'd give you a hug.  I find myself trying to come up with something encouraging but I don't have a lot.  Just know that you don't suffer alone.  Also, your personal life will turn around.  I don't know when but your friends will begin to understand.  It took mine six years before they really started to get an idea of it and understand how they can support me in this.

As for the meds, well, that's a dangerous road.  I've tried that before and then realize that they were helping, even in the slightest, and as a result I relapse harder than I thought I could.  Had this been when you first stopped, I would have said keep taking them until you see your doctor and can ask what you should and shouldn't stop, but oh well.  I would recommend you ask her that.

I do have an answer for how I deal with it...and typically it's found in the Psalms.

FPO pyrozack
Joined Aug 24, 2009

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