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My son had the surgery


Tue, June 22, 2010 12:00 AM

Hi my 14 year old son had surgery where the removed his entire colon and rectum.  I have been on here many times with concerns about this.  He was very sick, on a feeding tube for a couple of months.  He dropped from 130lbs down to 96lbs.  It was all so scarey.  Thanks to all the people who responded to me in the past.  Well anywase he had his 1st surgery in February and we spent a month in the hospital do to some complications, like infections, abcesses and pancreatitis.   He had his second surgery on April 30th and he is now back to his sormal weight and is doing better than ever.   As scarey as this surgery was along with the complications, it was the best choice that we ever made.  So if any of you ever need someone to talk to I would love to be there to help.  My email is mel_rose_sun@hotmail.com and my name is Melanie

FPO melrosesun
Joined Jan 29, 2009

Mon, August 23, 2010 12:43 PM

 Reply posted for melrosesun.

All of the posts here are very encouraging to me.  My daughter is 14 and will be "trying" her 4th med in less than three years.  I wonder if surgery is in her near future.  I would love to chat with anyone willing to share their experiences and thoughts.  Melanie - if you have time an email from you would be great as well.
onedreamer@juno.com

FPO momofmouse
Joined Jul 2, 2009

Sat, August 21, 2010 10:21 AM

 Reply posted for sundropsu.

I wish I'd joined this forum earlier—my son and I were at Cincinnati Children's in July. He is 11, and had his second surgery, j-pouch construction and rectum removal, on May 5. We live in Washington state, so we understand about being far from home! We were in the midwest almost 4 months for treatment. He too, had complications. His anastimosis tore AND they gave him a staph infection in his bladder from multiple catheter placements. We are still battling the bladder problems for now, but he has healed just fine from the surgery. His final ostomy takedown is scheduled for November. Wish we'd been able to meet someone else with the same problem! 

FPO janewinslow
Joined Aug 21, 2010

Wed, August 18, 2010 12:00 AM

 Reply posted for melrosesun.

I want to thank you for the perspective.  I was diagnosed with UC a week ago.  I've had problems for about 10 weeks now and I have been a whiny brat through most of it.  Seeing that there are kids dealing with this and the thought that this could be my son (he's 10) instead of me has really made me look at it with fresh eyes.  Yes, it's literally a pain to deal with and being stuck at home is not fun but I'd rather I deal with it than my kids.  Again, thank you for the perspective!

Stacy

 

FPO yell0wpanda
Joined Aug 9, 2010

Sun, July 25, 2010 4:13 PM

 Reply posted for melrosesun.

My 14 year old son just had his surgery on July 8th at Cincinnati Children's. He developed an abscess and are still recovering from that in the hospital. They will run a test to check on his J-pouch tomorrow. We know this was the right decision. This is a huge surgery and will take time to recover, BUT living with a very active disease and it controlling his life wasn't an option. He is very discouraged right now. We are 7 hours away from home and been in the hospital for almost 3 weeks. Reading the posts from others who have gone through this helps so much as to what to expect.

FPO sundropsu
Joined Dec 26, 2009

Wed, July 14, 2010 12:00 AM

 Reply posted for melrosesun.

My son had his colon removed when he was 8 and he just had his rectum removed 2 weeks ago after he turned 9 and his final surgery will be in August when they finally can remove his bag.Doing great and he is just tired of the bag.

FPO sweetmd72
Joined Apr 7, 2010

Thu, June 24, 2010 11:15 AM

 Reply posted for dmstern8.

Derik's Mom,

Me too....You however will see a huge differance after the surgeries are all done and will be so happy that you decided this route.  Good luck to your son and the family and thank you.

FPO melrosesun
Joined Jan 29, 2009

Wed, June 23, 2010 12:00 AM

 Reply posted for melrosesun.

Hi, My 15 year old son just had his first surgery on june 11, 2010.  He too had his entire colon and rectum removed due to sever UC.  He is due to have his second surgery in august. Just like your son , my son had been very sick and hospitalized 4 times in 8 months since his diagnosis.  So far so good.  I just hope we can avoid all complications in the future.  good luck to you and your son.  Derek's mom

FPO dmstern8
Joined Sep 23, 2009

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