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Sex and IBD - embarrassing stool smell issues


Mon, January 06, 2020 5:43 AM

I noticed my partner had been hesitant in giving me oral recently (straight couple) recently and so I asked him why and he said that a few times when he’s been down on me recently he’s smelt poo and the most recent time it was bad so it has put him off he tried to be sweet about it but in all honesty I’m horrified and embarrassed I even turned over to cry. I shower regularly and everything. I have Crohn's disease and recently had surgery so after surgery I was having a lot of constipation and finding it hard to get it all out, sometimes the frequency I go is quite frequent thus started to pick up just before surgery but also changed a little after i keep clean but I think  maybe this  could be partially why as it has been causing an intimate issue without me knowing. I also have either a skin tag or a Hemoroid which can also get in the way of perhaps being through like I thought I was. I've always been thorough with cleaning especially before we do abutting which makes me even more paranoid. He says there's always been a slight hint of a poo smell when he goes down there but recently it's stronger so he's avoiding doing oral. Im not sure what to do embarrassed I've had to even discuss it, I don’t think I’ll ever be comfortable for him to touch me again. Help

FPO ShortyC
Joined Jan 6, 2020

Sat, January 11, 2020 8:50 PM

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