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please help


Thu, July 31, 2014 3:53 PM

as i am writing these i am in tears. i just saw my sons best friend after a few month and the kid is wasting away...he has been struggling to fnd out what is wrong. they told him its crohns, he has had a fistula for the past few month and although his parents are well and alive...and drunk, he is alone.  i have known this child since he was 9 years old and he has been dealt a really *** hand in life. after seeing him i went in my room and cry about how selfish people can be, how indifferent to their own kids. he get no help from his parents, mom is booting herself as a hero because she got him on medical...he can work, and for the past 7 month he has been fending for himself pretty much. i am a mom, i need to step in....pleasae any guidance as where can i take him, any place that will treat him like he matters, h has been going to doctors and now they are telling him he has to wait until theyb find a specialist that can see him......just wait and pray your fistula does not come back? he has no money and his view in life is dim...pleae help i dont want to get the news that he is dead.....and have done nothing.

FPO momerica
Joined Jul 31, 2014

Fri, September 12, 2014 8:16 AM

 Reply posted for momerica.

No matter how hard it gets, and it gets HARD, there is always hope.

I wasted away when I first got diagnosed because I was in pain and diarrhea so I didnt want to eat. With the right medications I'm doing much better and now I can support others going through those rough patches.

Try to stay positive, pray if that's something you're into, and never stop believing that things will get better.

FPO mrsgali
Joined Sep 24, 2013

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